So here’s the deal. My boyfriend parties wayyy too much…and I can’t do anything to stop him. We’ve been dating for 2 years now and I love him more than anything. But this partying has seriously got to stop. He went to a party last night in Southold with god knows who. It worries me because he’s a very attractive guy, and I know there are girls out there that will do anything they can to get to him…especially when alcohol is involved. I can’t help but be paranoid about the whole thing. So I confronted him about it last night at like 1 because he noticed something was wrong when I was talking to him. I kept saying “no, no nothings wrong.” But really, there was something seriously wrong. So I brought up the fact that I was worried about the “southold girls” that were there. And he did exactly what I was expecting..flipped a shit. He kept saying if I was “seriously that paranoid, to just break up with him.” He said because he parties too much, and he doesn’t want to get “this” every time he goes to a party. The last thing I want to do is break up with him. I don’t know why its so hard for me to trust him..he’s never done anything to make me not trust him. But whenever he’s at a party, obviously I can’t help it. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!